Embracing Your Role as Second Wife

Because Second Wife Doesn't Mean Second Choice

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I felt like I was a faulty second model, like I was second choice, trying to live someone else’s life. I often questioned if I could stay.

I went from constantly obsessing about his past, wondering if I was measuring up, questioning if he'd ever love me as much as he had loved her, to actual peace. I discovered why I had those insecurities and what this second wife role is all about. I learned how to embrace this life, how to put insecurity and jealousy out of my mind. And let me tell you... It was LIFE CHANGING. My days are filled with joy instead of angst. It's as if I could physically feel the pressure lift from my shoulders.

I know exactly what it's like to think second wife means second best. What it's like to feel like you're just second choice, a substitute for the first wife.

And that's why at Embracing Your Role as Second Wife, I am sharing the mental transformation in one life-changing course.


Your Instructor


Kristen Skiles
Kristen Skiles

Hey there, I’m Kristen! I’m an Air Force wife and [step]mom to a beautiful 8-year-old, and I run on coffee, wine, and Amazon Prime, I blog at stepmomming.com where I provide comfort and guidance for overwhelmed stepmoms, encouraging and helping them to write their own happily ever afters.


Embrace the transformation! Throughout this course:

  • You'll discover PEACE!
  • You’ll stop comparing all of your actions to hers!
  • You'll understand the unique, irreplaceable role you play.
  • You'll stop seeking and seeing reminders of his first wife.
  • You'll realize the difference between first and second marriages.
  • You'll notice a mood shift and a propensity for gratitude.
  • and SO MUCH MORE!

In addition to the value-packed course content, you'll also have exclusive access to a private community of other stepmoms going through the course content with unfettered access to stepmomming.com founder Kristen Skiles.

In this private community, Kristen will lead you through the content with group coaching sessions. In eight weeks, you'll barely recognize the woman you are today. You'll come out on the other side a more confident, secure woman, eager to start living this beautiful, unique life.

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"The Embracing Your Role as a Second Wife course made me think about being a second wife in a whole new light! Filled with thoughtful reflection, activities, and even guidance for conversations with your husband, this course helped show me how critical perspective is. Through this course, I've defined my role as a second wife... I will no longer let the role define me! And as Kristen says, second wife does not mean second best! I am my husbands first choice. Very thankful I found this course."

- Ashley, Stepmom

Course Curriculum


  Welcome!
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  Step One: Seek Clarity
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  Step Two: Mourn the Firsts
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  Step Three: Define Your Role
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  Step Four: Develop Your Role
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  Wrap Up
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Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
This is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish. You will have lifetime access to the content and can revisit the information whenever you want!
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase after completing the course and workbook, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.